One more photo gallery from China trip

Saturday, April 15, 2006, 12:06 p.m.

HATTIESBURG, Miss. - Here are a few new photos I thought I'd post to wrap up our trip to China. These aren't that spectacular, but some are, dare I say, cute. At any rate, enjoy them if you like. - Terry R. Cassreino.



PHOTO 1
Pam, Camryn and I were eating dinner Thursday night at the Harbour Metroplis Hotel in Hong Kong after a long afternoon of shopping. Camryn, who went without a nap, was exhausted. Here, the poor thing fights sleep in between bites of dinner.










PHOTO 2
Camryn fussed a little later that night, but then went right to sleep. The hotel incidetally, provided a crib for the baby at no charge. The hotel was nice, but a bit pricey and the rooms too small for our tastes.















PHOTO 3
Here is a better view of the cubicle, or rather room, where we stayed at the Metrolpolis. The room was small compared to the rooms we had in Beijing, Nanchang and Guangzhou. But the bed was comfortable and the air conditioning worked.














PHOTO 4
Pam smiles here in the Toykyo airport in between flights on Friday from Hong Kong and to Detroit. Little did she know that the upcoming Tokyo-to-Detroit flight would become "The Flight from Hell." Keep telling yourself "It's only a movie. It's only a movie. It's only a movie."









PHOTO 5
Camryn enjoys a bite of delicious pureed corn and chicken from Heinz baby food. Yum. This, of course, was before the baby took over a featured role in "The Flight from Hell."











PHOTO 6
Ba ba (what the Chinese children call their dad) falls asleep with Camryn in his arms after trying to quiet a restless baby following more than 24 hours of flying that left everyone on board with three hours of sleep at most (in between showings of "The Flight from Hell" starring Camryn and Pam). I was exhausted. So was Camryn. But, boy was she fussy Friday night and Saturday morning.




Photos and text copyright 2006 by Terry R. Cassreino.

Notes from China trip

Saturday, April 15, 2006, 11:43 a.m.

By Terry R. Cassreino

HATTIESBURG, Miss. - Now that Pam and I are home after our journey to adopt our daughter from China, I offer these comments about the trip.

Holt International Children’s Services
Our social worker from Catholic Charities said she had good responses from Holt and a longtime friend and fraternity brother also had a great experience.
Now, after Pam and I spent the past year and a half working with Holt on our adoption, we also have words of praise. This organization is first-class all the way.
Foreign adoptions can be time consuming, complicated and intimidating. Holt walked me through the process and helped me every part of the way.
If I had a question, all I had to do was pick up the phone and call the office in Eugene, Ore., and I had an answer immediately. Holt representatives also were great in China.
Folks, if you are thinking about a foreign adoption, this is the group to use.

Lotus Travel
Holt uses Lotus to help arrange travel inside China. We used Lotus to arrange our flight tickets and our extra days in Beijing and Hong Kong, as well as extra tours in Beijing.
Here is another organization that is top-notch. From the minute we arrived in Beijing on Tuesday, March 28, until we left Guangzhou on Wednesday, April 12, Lotus was there with us.
Lotus representatives offered great suggestions for sightseeing and dining in Chinese cities. And they offered practical advice for the novice traveler in China.
Beijing was a highlight of the trip when it comes to sightseeing Lotus arranged not-to-be-missed tours of several Buddhist temples, the Great Wall of China and the Forbidden City (see earlier posts for more details).

Hong Kong
This is a busy city.
In many ways, it reminded Pam and me of New York City. We’ve never seem so many people - no, make that hordes of people - everywhere we turned.
And to top it off, we only visited one small part of the city.
Too bad the merchants in this city weren’t in the mood to bargain the way they did in Guangzhou. I picked up a new suitcase in Guangzhou for $10 and in Hong Kong for $20.
The suitcase from Guangzhou wasn’t quite as nice as the one from Hong Kong. But, the Hong Kong folks simply didn’t want to deal at all. I was disappointed.
I wish we had more time in Hong Kong if only to try one or two restaurants in town. We simply didn’t have enough time to eat anywhere other than the hotel restaurant Thursday night.

Odds and ends

• What is it about neon? It’s everywhere in China. Every city becomes a spectacular nighttime display of neon as restaurants and billboards endlessly tout products in neon.
• We finally discovered the secret to Coca-Cola in China. The Coca-Cola Bottling Co. there uses sugar and not high fructose corn syrup to sweeten Coke. You can certainly tell the difference.
• Pam’s mom flew from Jackson to Detroit with her nephew’s wife to meet Pam and me on our way to a connecting flight to Jackson. The visit shocked Pam, who was reduced to tears.
• The Jackson airport also was a memorable scene. Our family and friends, holding balloons and gifts, burst into cheers and tears when they saw Pam, me and Camryn.
• I imagine their excitement must have been similar that of Pam and me on the day we met Camryn. And the poor baby was so confused by all the people who wanted to see and hold her.
• After some disgustingly awful and inedible plane food (see previous post), Pam and I joined other family members at Cock of the Walk before we brought Camryn to see pop-pop.
• We returned home for the first time in more than two weeks and slowly began unpacking. I didn’t realize how much stuff we brought back. Besides that, I need to buy a lawnmower and cut the grass.

Final word
Thanks to all of you who have taken the time to read and visit our blog during our trip to China.
This began as an experiment, as a way to keep our family and friends informed about our adoption trip. But the more I played with it in China, the more fun I had writing.
Consequently, this blog took on a life of its own. And, I’ll have to admit, the responses I got from everyone who read my posts and looked at our pictures, fueled my enthusiasm.
This truly has been an amazing journey for Pam and me - and we were more than happy to share it with you.
I plan to keep updating the blog, hopefully on a daily basis. It obviously won’t be as intensely updated as it was during our trip (I do have a job), but I’ll try my best.
Thanks.
And God bless.

Photos and text copyright 2006 by Terry R. Cassreino.

Return flight from hell

Saturday, April 15, 2006, 10:47 a.m.

By Terry R. Cassreino

HATTIESBURG, Miss. - Call it the plane ride from hell in which our new daughter suddenly and shockingly turned into the living manifestation of Regan McNeil.
While her head didn’t spin like “The Exorcist” character, Camryn screamed and cried almost non-stop Friday on our four-hour flight from Hong Kong to Tokyo and 11-hour flight from Tokyo to Detroit.
Camryn was miserable, and, damn it, she was going to let us know. Can you blame her?
She’s a year and a week old, she’s been jolted from her life in a Chinese orphanage and thrown together with two strange people who speak and weird language.
That’s not all: Camryn also lived a few days in one hotel in Nanchang, in another one for several days in Guangzhou, and in a third one for two nights in Hong Kong.
And she’s still surrounded by two strange people who don’t look like the Chinese adults she’s been with all year and who speak that strange-sounding English language.
With all that combined, why wouldn’t she be miserable during 24 hours of traveling half-way around the world to her new home, new family and equally strange new surroundings?
Despite all that, the plane ride from hell was just that - HELL.
And even though Camryn’s inability to calm down and sleep for more than three hours was part of the problem, our three separate flights also sucked for other reasons.
How and why were they bad? Well, let’s look at the myriad of reasons.

Airline food
Pam and I flew Northwest from Hong Kong to Tokyo, Tokyo to Detroit and Detroit to Jackson. The last leg was on a 50-seat jet operated by Pinnacle Airlines.
The Hong Kong to Tokyo leg served breakfast: Bland, scrambled eggs topped with nasty salsa, one link of sausage that tasted like paper and coffee that had no flavor.
The Tokyo to Detroit leg served dinner that included a disgusting Thai-like chicken dish on top of rice. When Pam accidentally toppled her tray of food on to me, a bad dish grew worse.
Also on the Tokyo to Detroit leg, flight attendants served a foul tasting spice cake as a snack and another breakfast meal (at noon, go figure that one out) that also wasn’t worth eating.

Flight attendants
Pam and I can’t figure out why the flight attendants were such jerks when we flew on March 27 from Detroit to Tokyo and then when we flew on Friday from Tokyo to Detroit.
On both flights, the men and women attendants were snippy, mean, grouchy, and all-around miserable to deal with. They seemed to detest their job, and it showed.
And heaven forbid if you asked them a question or requested a favor.
Pam asked the male attendant on the return flight for hot water so she could warm food for Camryn. You’d have thought she asked him if she could fly the plane.
The flight attendant got the water for her, but he was a jerk about it.

Unsympathetic passenger
Pam and I had seats in the middle of the center aisle of our return flight. Single seats flanked both sides of us, so Pam planned to ask one of those passengers to switch places.
The reason: We had a 1-year-old baby and were traveling 10-11 hours overseas and overnight. Pam wanted easy access to the aisle so she could walk with Camryn.
When we boarded the plane 30 minutes before take-off, Pam took the aisle seat. The man whose seat that was arrived just before takeoff; when Pam asked him to switch, he refused.
“Fine then,” an angry Pam told him. “I’ve got a baby and I’ll just let you know that I’ll be crossing over your feet repeatedly throughout the flight to walk with her. So be prepared.”
The man stared at her and sat down.
Luckily a second man who had the single seat on the opposite aisle offered to switch places with Pam, which she did. It turned out the man was a pastor of a church in the Midwest.

Rough flight
The flight from Tokyo had a rough landing In fact, it was so rough I thought the plane was going to tip over on its side when it hit the runway.
The flight from Detroit to Jackson also had a rough ascent and descent. The rocking was so intense, it left Pam and me nauseous.

Bottom line
That said - and taking into consideration our child’s miserable ride - Pam and I have decided we’ll never ride Northwest again. I’ve heard too many other families who were adopting praise other airlines, so I’m sure we could find something more enjoyable next time.

Copyright 2006 by Terry R. Cassreino.